Saturday, 11 July 2020

Suicide solution


‌दुनिया में कितने ऐसे लोग होते है जिसको सूइसाइड करना होता है या तो वह सूइसाइड कर लेते है। पूरे एक साल में 80,00000 से 10,00000 लोग आत्महत्या करते है। उस में ज्यादातर यूथ शामिल है। वह अपना काम करते करते अपनों के प्रति अपनी फैमिली के प्रति या देश के प्रति अपनी रेस्पिस्लिब्लिटी भूल जाते है। वह हार जाते है कमजोर हो जाते है। सोचने की बात तो ये है कि जो आने वाला कल बनने वाले है वहीं सूइसाइड करते है। एक्सपेक्टेशन इतनी प्यारी लगती है खुद पर इतनी हावी होने देते है कि हम उसको मार नहीं सकते ओर खुद को ही खतम कर देते है।

आपने यह तो सुना ही होगा कि सबसे बड़ा रोग क्या कहेंगे लोग? लोग कहते है कि तू ऐसा है या तू ऐसी है तो क्या उसके कहने से ऐसे हो जाते है? साथ में यह भी पता होना चाहिए कि कुछ लोग कहेंगे लोगो का तो काम है केहना। शेक्सपीयर का एक फेमस प्ले है हेमलेट उसमे हेमलेट ऑफिलिया को गुस्से में कहता है गो टू ननरी। ननरी का मतलब है वह प्लेस जहां चरित्रहीन लोग रहते है और ननरी का दूसरा भी मतलब है प्लेस फोर प्योर वुमन। यह सुनकर ऑफिलिया उदास  जाती है और सूइसाइड कर लेती है। क्या ऑफिलिया सामने कुछ बोल नहीं सकती? यह सब तो प्ले में हुआ है। पर ऐसा ही रियल लाईफ में भी होता है कोई एक व्यक्ति दूसरे व्यक्ति का रिमोट बनना चाहता है उस पे कन्ट्रोल करना चाहता है। ओर धीरे धीरे प्रॉब्लम आने लगती है।

‌जो हम चाहते है वैसा होता नहीं ओर जो हम करते है उसको लोग चाहते नहीं ओर उसको ही हम इतना सोचते है कि हमारे अंदर कोई दूसरा खयाल आता ही नहीं है। ओर उसको ही डिप्रेशन कहा जाता है।  क्या हमारे पास उसके अलावा सोचने को कुछ भी नहीं है? इंसान को लगता है अब कुछ नहीं बचा अब मुझे मर ही जाना चाहिए। बट जो बचा हुआ होता है वह उसको दिखता नहीं है।

‌छोटी छोटी बातों से लोग डिप्रेशन में आ जाते है। ओर उसको ही आदत बना लेते है अपना स्वभाव बना लेते है। भारत में तकरीबन 9 करोड़ लोग मानसिक बीमारी से लड़ रहे है  W H O के पास भारत के लिए 10लाख लोगों पर 1 ही मनोचिकित्सक है। तो एक साइसेट्रिक कितने लोगो का इलाज कर पाएगा? क्यू लोग इतने स्ट्रोंग नहीं है कि खुद के मन पर काबू कर पाए। हस के सबसे बात करके प्रॉब्लम शेयर करके खुद का इलाज खुद कर पाए।




Wednesday, 24 June 2020

Suicide is big question

            Now i need to write about on suicide topic. I thought I'd write something about it. 
Everyone in the world has a problem. But also is a solution to every problem. Never run away from trouble. Trouble is not the way to go. There are always ups and downs in our life. It is from the problem that one learns the way of life. Life is most important to do something well. Even we needs to be human to do something marvelous. The human being is the only one so powerful and helpful.

            Success, fame, money are not barometer of happiness, human needs to inner peace and mental equilibrium. Depression is a very serious illness. A person who is suffering is not capable of seeing the downfall.  Maybe in this situation person thinking how can I be useful to others if I can't do anything for myself?


            Most of people living in huts. Do not have to eat two times, these people don't even have enough clothes to wear. Poor people also have a lot of dreams, so if dream don't come true then suicide is the way to go?
            Even an army man would be thinking too. What will happen to my wife my son, my family. There are so many questions, but so what? Suicide is the way to go ?


                   If low marks are obtained in the examination, then the students commits suicide. People commits suicide becouce they don't get the love of any one person. People commit suicide becouce of dept. Run away from the obligation.
                  After going to war, we think whether to fight or not. This consider is completely useless. To think or live or die after gaining life ?
Yes I know that we were not born of our own free will. So it's our right to live or die. But it is not right to die under pressure. If we have such a precious life, so why don't we use our life?

              Getting low Mark's in exam is the only life ? Getting someone's love is the only life ?
        Apart from this, it is of no importance in this whole world? 
We are in the dilemma. What people will say about us.
        Teacher or parents always ask to childrens what you want to be in life ? Doctor, lower, or engineer's.

         But we know that after stealing in the exam, it could be passed. People can become doctors or engineers after committing corruption. But we did stealing or corruption cannot be a person successful or strong.

         So, always ask the child how to become strong? How to become successful human. How to be a fearless. How to support yourself in a situation of trouble. 

Friday, 17 April 2020

Review about the test case webseries

                      The Test case

           The test case is a 2017 Hindi wab series. Directed by vinay waikul and nagesh kunkunoor and produced by endemol shine india for the alt balaji app. A story of indias first female combat officer.


About character :-
      In this webseries only for seventeen character's. Like character named are shikha sharma (Nirmit Kaur) is the lead character and others are Captain bilal Siddique, col, aninkya sathe, Captain avinash walia, naib subedar kripal bhatti.

 My review about the webseries

         This is the best webseries for male and female. This webseries  become upon feminuism. Shikha sharma is vary strong girl in this show. She is fight for their own goals. She fight with her own family, Because of she wanted to be an army officer. She's father says the girl could not be an army officer. And she's father also force her son even he doesn't want to be an army officer. Everyone can see a dream. Whether it's a boy or a girl, it doesn't matter.

           To much problems but she don't go to back. If a girl decide she can not just make a food, she become army had officer or anything. 

     Mostly girl's also believe that without any support she can't do this. But look at shikha sharma  I know this is the webseries. But so what, it's all depends on our think also we have original examples like Rani Lakshmi bai,  kalpna chawla, kiran bedi, P.T. Usha etc. If these women didn't think extremely they couldn't have gone any further. 
     Today it is very important to empowerment in this webseries we can see how's Shikha Sharma growing, also woman take her  decisions for their personal developmen. Is called women empowerment. Shikha Sharma take her own decisions, she is independent in all aspects of life be it mind, thoughts and also making the right decisions without the social and family restrictions. Women should also be given equal rights to men. 

           In this show  interesting thing  is how she manages to walk the fine line between not demanding special treatment and not letting the men get away with loos talk related to her gender. She comes from a household where dreams of the army were restricted to the boy.  Yet she can do it so why we can not. Even she was raped but she didn't give up despite being raped. She fights against the rapist. Really she is very strong girl.
        At last this shows song lyrics is pleasurable. Whenever we listening this song patriotism is aroused in our heart and mind. I like The test case webseries. I hope you like it

                          Thank you 

Wednesday, 15 April 2020

The time is yours not for corona, so utilise your self well.

         Hello friends, how are you ? I hope you all are fine. How's going your days? I think you're all bored in the house. But we are safe. Think about these peolpe who are insecure. Corona virus is not one of our problems, this is the trouble of the whole world. That's why stay where you are, don't run away. Especially think about those who care about our safety. Think about people who put their lives in danger, and protect us, like police, doctors, nurses, other medical staff, NGO's, volunteers of government, teachers, Safai karmachari's, our building guards etc.
           Hearty thank you so much for to save our lives. We all are sitting comfortably in the house because of this hero's , so we don't go to outside, and the work of these people should be slowed down.
            Do something new activities that doesn't bother you. If nothing works learn something new. Give the family time. Have fun if it's a holiday, so why you all are feel bored. All people in the world are in the house except the animal, if we are animals then we go outside  without work and if not we will stay in the house. The only one difference is we all are think of a holiday when we have works and now we have a holiday then we should worry about work.
Now I remember one idiom
      "The fruit of waiting is sweet"
So keep peace.
And people say that staying home increases fat. So why do not exercises, we know that in the work time we don't have time for exercise. We have to much excuse such like this. Now we have full time do Pranayam, yoga, and exercise.
    Policeman, Armyman get the chance to protect our country, so don't think only you are doing work, it's a best opportunity for you.
    Why does not wear mask. Whenever you are going outside please wear mask😷
Without work don't go to outside🏃🏃🏻‍♀️
Wash your hands🙌
Don't eat street food🍔🍟
Don't panic🤦 
Don't bother🙅
Don't be angry 🤷
Don't handshake🤝
Do Only Namste🙏

             🏡Stay home stay safe👨‍👩‍👧‍👧

                           Thank you 


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